Dating someone who has cheated before
Now for the important part: the researchers discovered that once a person cheated, they were 3.4 times more likely to cheat again, and 45 percent of cheaters struck again in their next relationship.
“That's why it's inadvisable to marry someone who was cheating in an affair with you — when you're the spouse, you'll get cheated on.
I remember, once upon a time, I had a jealous girlfriend who’d been cheated on by previous boyfriends.
And our conversation went something like this: Her: “If you ever cheated on me, I’d expect you to tell me about it.” Me: “What would happen if I told you about it?
And so, my friend, Jason, if you don’t know that your girlfriend can handle the truth, don’t tell her the truth.
The same way you don’t tell her how many people you’ve slept with in your life; some things are on a need to know basis and if you’re a devoted boyfriend now and have no intentions of ever leaving her, that’s all she needs to know.3.
Tessina reminds us that “guilt gifts” are common when someone is getting nookie on the side.
Unless she tells you about every single one night stand she had, don’t tell her about your one night stand.
Still, I’ve got three compelling reasons why you should give yourself a break and just focus on being the best boyfriend you can be, okay? It would be downright foolhardy to commit to someone after a first date (even though we’ve all done it). There is little upside to telling your girlfriend the truth. If you read this blog, you’ll know that I’m as honest as they come.